2012年1月30日 星期一

Why Men Cheat - Cheaters: Men or Women?

Do men have the right to cheat?

Let me tell you this fact, when a guy cheats, it simply means he is a cheap. He has no respect for himself and certainly no respect for his partner. Obviously when you cheat, you are immature, and not certain of yourself. However, not men are born cheaters, and not merely men cheat. There are also some women do the same. The choice is yours. A man or a woman who respects his/her partner would make the right choice and wise decision. If you think that your partner is cheating on you, then follow your guts. Ladies and gentlemen it is not your fault if your partners cheat on you, unless you are allowing them to do it.

To women:

-You have to remember that all men have or will have a desire to cheat, but if they will act on these desires, it is totally a different issue to chuckle. Now, don't you have desires too? This is the fact to bear in mind. We are all the same, but we act differently.

To men:

-Your partner will cheat on you because of the so called "sweet cheat revenge". They think that if you can do it, they cam also.

To All:

-The first time you even deduce you have a liar or that you found out you have a liar partner, you can give the benefit of the doubt and the second lie, it is ok maybe you just missed something, but picking up on the third lie? That is something to think it over! It is time to go no matter how much you love that person. Do not ignore it. It is time to grow up, and face reality. Your partner will not change. He/she may change for a day, but time will come he'll do the same mistakes.

Let us narrow these aspects for you to keep your relationship strong and steady. The most important point of a relationship is trust, and there can't be trust if you don't respect your significant partner enough to permit them their own privacy. There is no relationship that is perfect. I am very sure that every relationship has things to patch up. I've not seen one relationship that doesn't have a fight, but when it goes to the point of pointing fingers, it's time to move out. Do not wait for that time that your partner may do more harm. The other thing to keep in mind is constant communication. This is a great foundation for every relationship, but it only works with trust as well as respect. If something is troubling you, then confess it to your partner, and if find something not good from him/her, tell honestly. Through this, you are giving yourself a solution in every problem, not only that, you are making your relationship stronger.

I hope you are all enlightened. Trust and respect your partner, and at the same time keep the communication constantly.


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